To go for it, or not to go for it, that is the question –
Whether ‘tis nobler in the mind to suffer
The Slings and Arrows of my outrageously less than desirable situation,
Or to take Arms against this mediocrity,
By opposing it and pursuing something I really want and need to do.
–Blogger’s reapplication of Shakespeare’s Hamlet
Change comes hard for a lot of people. Despite the most desperate need or desire, our brains are actually wired to resist change.
Yet, just doing it, taking action, achieving momentum and motivation can be transformative in and of themselves. These actions are empowering, validating and provides movement toward something better.
After listening to hundreds of highly successful people in literally thousands of videos and podcasts, I have consistently heard one fundamental key to success from them all: Just do it!
The difference between those who succeed and everyone else isn’t based so much on education, experience or social background. It is the fact they did it.
Watch to Evan Carmichael’s Just do it video
This is how Steve Jobs, Elon Musk, Richard Branson and virtually every single person you would consider successful did it. And it is the single critical principal they preach. Without it, nothing happens. They say there’s nothing magical and nothing that’s not within every human. It is as simple and daunting as taking the first step.
One case in point of a regular guy: Paul K. is a longtime friend and colleague and he spoke of his brother John who is now in his mid-fifties and who agonized for years about how he didn’t like his job and was constantly worried about his company folding or laying him off. Paul kept encouraging him to “start now” and move onto something else inquiring, “If money was no object, what would you do with your life?”
After much resistance John finally just did it. He went after what he really wanted to be: a pastor.
It was really, really, really challenging for him to take that step and it has been really, really, really hard to go through the effort and education to reach his transformative goal. But worth it? Absolutely. It is not just the destination but also the joy of the journey.
And the destination became something he never expected. He is now the employed pastor in a corporation.
John says he has a newfound respect for his brother because Paul has been able to perpetually reinvent himself changing areas of focus, learning new skills, pursuing different types of opportunities to ride and survive the evolution of the video and live event business sector. A trait I share with him. Change comes naturally to people like us and we even embraced it (sometimes grudgingly).
Maybe it’s in our DNA. I think it’s out of necessity. Better to suck it up and change than die a slow death.
And yet, existing talents, experience and skill sets are a foundation to succeeding in all of those changes.
So which type are you? Are you someone who would just as soon tolerate “the devil you know”? Someone who hates his or her situation but nevertheless is “comfortable” because it is familiar?
Or are you ready for change and embrace it.
If you need to change, do it and do it now. It won’t get better only harder (just like the situation).
I created ProBoomer because I felt my life literally depended on it. Here was my mega fear: I didn’t want to be on my deathbed deeply regretting I didn’t go for it.
If the change is something that literally feels good and feels right in your gut, then it is absolutely worth whatever you have to do to get it. That feeling means it is right.
There will be struggles, doubts, and obstacles (just like any situation including the current one you want to change). But you put the same energy and attention trying to maintain the status quo as you do changing paths. And changing your path is more exciting, fulfilling and hopeful.
Read Donna Bailey’s “Why can’t we JUST DO IT?”
John realized it would take him four to six years to get to that special day when he would fully realize the fruits of his efforts (it took five).
So the question for John then and for you now is this: When that date in the future comes, how do you want to feel?
Will it be a day of regret and sadness because you didn’t pursue a better path and meaning to your life?
Or will it be a day on which you are reaping the benefits of your choice and efforts? A day on which you are happy and fulfilled. A day when you can look in the mirror and feel the pride, satisfaction, and happiness because you took the step into the undiscovered country and put forth the courage and effort to be in a new and wonderful situation.
To be. Or not to be. That is the question.